167 lines
5.4 KiB
HTML
167 lines
5.4 KiB
HTML
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<head><script src="/livereload.js?mindelay=10&v=2&port=1313&path=livereload" data-no-instant defer></script>
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<title>My New Hugo Site</title>
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</head><body class="ma0 avenir bg-near-white development">
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<header>
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<div class="pb3-m pb6-l bg-black">
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<nav class="pv3 ph3 ph4-ns" role="navigation">
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<a href="/" class="f3 fw2 hover-white no-underline white-90 dib">
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My New Hugo Site
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Parentings
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<span class="f6 db">Parentings</span>
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<h1 class="f3 near-black">
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<a href="/parenting/positive-discipline/" class="link black dim">
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</h1>
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<div class="nested-links f5 lh-copy nested-copy-line-height">
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<h1 id="positive-discipline">Positive Discipline</h1>
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<h2 id="chapter-one-the-positive-approach">Chapter One: The Positive Approach</h2>
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<p>Children used to be more submissive and obedient because their parents modelled
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those behaviours. Mum “obeyed” Dad; Dad obeyed his boss.</p>
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<p>Children deserve to be treated with dignity and respect.</p>
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<p>Children (these days) don’t have responsibilities; they miss out on
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opportunities to feel belonging and significance.</p>
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<p>Responsibilities are chances to develop skills, self-belief, and to practice
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overcoming challenges.</p>
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<p>Energy spent on manipulating people to take care of them could be spent becoming
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capable.</p>
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</div>
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<a href="/parenting/positive-discipline/" class="ba b--moon-gray bg-light-gray br2 color-inherit dib f7 hover-bg-moon-gray link mt2 ph2 pv1">read more</a>
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</div>
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</div>
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<div class="relative w-100 w-30-l mb4 bg-white">
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<div class="relative w-100 mb4 bg-white nested-copy-line-height">
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<div class="bg-white mb3 pa4 gray overflow-hidden">
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<span class="f6 db">Parentings</span>
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<h1 class="f3 near-black">
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<a href="/parenting/the-whole-brain-child/" class="link black dim">
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</h1>
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<div class="nested-links f5 lh-copy nested-copy-line-height">
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<h1 id="the-whole-brain-child">The Whole Brain Child</h1>
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<p>Chaos - Integration - Rigidity</p>
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<h2 id="using-both-sides-of-the-brain">Using both sides of the brain</h2>
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<ol>
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<li>“Connect & Redirect”: Respond to emotional reactions in an emotive way
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(right brain to right brain)., then switch to a logical solution once the
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child is calm.</li>
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<li>“Name it to tame it”: Recount a painful experience in a way that addresses
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the emotions that the child felt and shows that there is something to be
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learned from the experience.</li>
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</ol>
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<h2 id="developing-and-integrating-the-upstairs-brain">Developing and integrating the upstairs brain</h2>
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<ol start="3">
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<li>
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<p>“Engage, don’t enrage”: Appeal to the upstairs brain: respond to meltdowns
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and tantrums by prompting the child to use their upstairs brain.</p>
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</div>
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<a href="/parenting/the-whole-brain-child/" class="ba b--moon-gray bg-light-gray br2 color-inherit dib f7 hover-bg-moon-gray link mt2 ph2 pv1">read more</a>
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</div>
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</div>
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</div>
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</section></article>
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</main>
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<a class="f4 fw4 hover-white no-underline white-70 dn dib-ns pv2 ph3" href="http://localhost:1313/" >
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© My New Hugo Site 2025
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