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Chaos - Integration - Rigidity
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Using both sides of the brain
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“Connect & Redirect”: Respond to emotional reactions in an emotive way
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(right brain to right brain)., then switch to a logical solution once the
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child is calm.
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“Name it to tame it”: Recount a painful experience in a way that addresses
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the emotions that the child felt and shows that there is something to be
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learned from the experience.
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Developing and integrating the upstairs brain
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“Engage, don’t enrage”: Appeal to the upstairs brain: respond to meltdowns
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and tantrums by prompting the child to use their upstairs brain.">
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Using both sides of the brain “Connect & Redirect”: Respond to emotional reactions in an emotive way (right brain to right brain)., then switch to a logical solution once the child is calm. “Name it to tame it”: Recount a painful experience in a way that addresses the emotions that the child felt and shows that there is something to be learned from the experience. Developing and integrating the upstairs brain “Engage, don’t enrage”: Appeal to the upstairs brain: respond to meltdowns and tantrums by prompting the child to use their upstairs brain.">
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Using both sides of the brain “Connect & Redirect”: Respond to emotional reactions in an emotive way (right brain to right brain)., then switch to a logical solution once the child is calm. “Name it to tame it”: Recount a painful experience in a way that addresses the emotions that the child felt and shows that there is something to be learned from the experience. Developing and integrating the upstairs brain “Engage, don’t enrage”: Appeal to the upstairs brain: respond to meltdowns and tantrums by prompting the child to use their upstairs brain.">
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Using both sides of the brain “Connect & Redirect”: Respond to emotional reactions in an emotive way (right brain to right brain)., then switch to a logical solution once the child is calm. “Name it to tame it”: Recount a painful experience in a way that addresses the emotions that the child felt and shows that there is something to be learned from the experience. Developing and integrating the upstairs brain “Engage, don’t enrage”: Appeal to the upstairs brain: respond to meltdowns and tantrums by prompting the child to use their upstairs brain.">
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Parentings
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<div class="nested-copy-line-height lh-copy serif f4 nested-links mid-gray pr4-l w-two-thirds-l"><h1 id="the-whole-brain-child">The Whole Brain Child</h1>
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<p>Chaos - Integration - Rigidity</p>
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<h2 id="using-both-sides-of-the-brain">Using both sides of the brain</h2>
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<ol>
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<li>“Connect & Redirect”: Respond to emotional reactions in an emotive way
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(right brain to right brain)., then switch to a logical solution once the
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child is calm.</li>
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<li>“Name it to tame it”: Recount a painful experience in a way that addresses
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the emotions that the child felt and shows that there is something to be
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learned from the experience.</li>
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</ol>
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<h2 id="developing-and-integrating-the-upstairs-brain">Developing and integrating the upstairs brain</h2>
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<ol start="3">
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<p>“Engage, don’t enrage”: Appeal to the upstairs brain: respond to meltdowns
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and tantrums by prompting the child to use their upstairs brain.</p>
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</li>
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<li>
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<p>“Use it or lose it”: Exercise decision making & don’t rescue children from
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the consequences of minor bad decisions. Teach children how to make good
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decisions when upset. Prompt children to practice self-understanding. Prompt
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children to practice empathy and seek to understand other people. Challenge
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children with questions of morality.</p>
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<p>“Move it or lose it”: Use physical exertion to calm anger or fear.</p>
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<p>Replay memories. Re-tell stories of traumatic events to reason about what
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happened and understand why those events caused feelings of fear, anger etc.</p>
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<p>“Remember to remember”: Prompt children to recall their experiences e.g. by
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asking them to recall select details. Make a game of it.</p>
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